Saturday, May 10, 2008

Your Profile On Dating Site. Trifles Are Important.

Theorem. To catch a good fish, you must offer a very good bait.

Numerous dating sites are colorful with ads. Smart ones post their profiles on several sites simultaneously. The persistent ones, not spare money, raise their profiles on the top row every 2-3 days. Beautiful ones hope for professional photographs. Ladies expose the most attractive parts of the body, talently take tempting poses of the mermaids, unobtrusively swash in the foam of waves. Apollos, muscles slightly tensing, invite mates to hold unforgettable night. Alas, at the age of Internet and mobile communications a few people find what that were looking for.

What are they looking for? Women are looking for that very Only One, a half. For whom, who will deliver by his soul and body the pleasure and comfort to the family, nurture and bring to mind not numerous, but an ambitious offspring.

Men want to find a beauty women "under the status" and rather try her in the nearest horizontal soft place. And then, as God gives. And He gives, but somehow not the way you want, and not to those who tries more. Why does it go amiss, though it seems bites and the place is full of fish?

1). Questionnaires are empty. You can see photos only. Here you are! It's Me!. Unravel a mystery. If guess - would be a prize! Alas, the people can guess bad.

2). Questionnaires are not honest. Someone is using photos of known and unknown artists. Someone lie on the pages, trying to attract maximum partners, hoping that they will get loved-get used.

3). Owners of profiles are honest, modest and shy. They can not stand giving the information for fear that their neighbors or colleagues will know, and will judge.

4). Owners of profiles are slow-witted. For example, they write about their preferences, that love to travel. And then later it turns out that he prefers to do it in an aircraft and to live comfortably in expensive hotel. On the other hand a partner can imagine traveling as a pedestrian route, nights in mountains, in forests by the bonfire with songs and mosquitoes ...

There are dozens of examples of how the sexual giants have turneddwarfs,businessmen -auto washermen, passionate women - cold Atlantic herrings.

What to do? To risk. Maximum risk. Becoming the most candid. Expand yourself from all sides. Emphasize the qualities for which you dear friends, can be loved. Do not be afraid of skew the views of friends and acquaintances, because YOUR LIFE is on the scale. Maybe it is today, now the person to whom you have sought will flash by and disappear. He might not notice you, if he thinks that your spiritual life is empty or bad.

Questionnaires or profiles should be filled until the edges like the bowl with wine, which held to dear guests. Let the photos show your individuality. Go towards each other. Take politeness and willingness to look inwards human. It is where the real wealth is hidden. Expand before your likely companion your best spiritual qualities, love and tenderness, courage and

Communicate maximum frankly, there is a wisdom, too. Remember that there are no trifles. Sometimes they are very important. Someone might like such a trifle as there was in one of the forms: a woman wrote that she had pets, but she also considers her pets the titmice, which sit on her window sill. She wrote that she was very fond of them. And someone will get this trifle in the heart. And then write more about happiness ...

To enter into a woman (man) for a night, just smile, sympathy, music and a glass of wine enough. To enter into a woman (man) for long, you have to disclose your inner spiritual world. Enchantment of spirituality, love and kindness is very strong. They attract, and there is no opportunity to confront them. Show what you are for now. If you still have shortcomings, show that you want to change yourself, that love will change you for the better.

Good luck on dating sites, dear friends!

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