Monday, April 20, 2009

Common Male Dating Blunders.

The rate of singles is steadily increasing year by year, and its little wonder judging by the way many people behave whilst attempting to entertain their date. We are witnessing more people entering the singles market, pushing the number of available singles up to record highs. Yet with so many available singles, one would think finding a new partner would be like a kid in a candy store! Not the case.

In a recent online chat room session conducted by The La Trobe Universities Centre for Public Wellness, interviews were carried out with female online dating members. The initial reaction by our female interviewer was that "the quality of these women were astonishing". They were mostly well educated, independent good looking women that had been single for an extended period of time. The main factor for their singles status, based on results of the online chat sessions was that finding quality men was the problem. Women often made up their minds whether there would be a second date or not after the first 10 minutes of their date

Men were either too confident, or not confident enough. Many men ignored the most basic of dating rules and didn't even offer to pay for half the meal. Other complaints single women had included men trying to feed them food without asking (how embarrassing), overpowering after shave, government and political chat (gee what a turn on), comparing ex-girlfriends, fiddling with their mobile phone, texting during a date, arriving late or arriving under he influence of mind-altering substances. Another common dating mistake made by men was failing to compliment their date on their appearance.
Here are some signs that a guy likes you and is trying to impress!
He attempts to only tell you "cool" things, or things that will "impress" you.
He seems nervous and unnatural whilst you chat... Occasionally presenting himself as formal.
He attempts to work out what the woman would like to find out about a topic.
If he chats about a topic the woman does not like, he back pedals and attempts to alter what he said to accommodate her.
He does not say anything speculative, doesn't badger the woman, and does not do anything to discomfit her.

More simple tips for guys!
Whether you think its important or not, the right clothes are crucial. It tells a lot about you. Take a little time to make an awesome first impression. Once you have secured a good impression you have gone along way to ensure the date will be a success. However there's no need to dress like a movie star to look good. Just give this some thought before your big night out. Remember, your there to impress her. If you use online dating sites, be honest with your profile details so to avoid disapointment on your first date.

Winning over your date isn't rocket science. Ladies will almost always be receptive if common sense gestures are used such as compliments, flowers and showing interest in what they have to say. Its all about effort, truely !

By: Matt F

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Monday, April 6, 2009

Spice Up Your Relationship With Lingerie

Lingerie- By far one of THE sexiest things that you can use to truly help spice up your relationship! There are many different types of sexy lingerie to choose from. The good thing is that sexy lingerie is available for both men and women!

There are many things that lingerie can do to help spice up the romance and also the quality of sex in your relationship. First of all, sexy lingerie might make you a lot more appealing to your partner. He or she might see you in a totally different light that he/she just cannot see you in regularly in day to day life. This is like getting a complete 'sexual' make over, one which not only helps to make you feel great, but also one that can truly help you to look your most ultimate best. Not only that, but just imagine the confidence and self esteem boost you will receive also!

This is great to help spice up any relationship! And surely you can imagine that the quality of sex in your relationship will also skyrocket! It's this kind of confidence and esteem that any relationship can endure! Because it really hurts when your relationship is in turmoil and by adding lingerie you can expect a great boost in the sexual confidence of your relationships!

There are many outlets online and otherwise where a woman can find the best lingerie the world has to offer. Three great outlets are Victoria's Secret, Frederick's of Hollywood and Sexy Depot. Victoria's Secret is mostly classy to elegant and is the chosen brand amongst all the Hollywood starlets, and even typical everyday stay-at-home moms or just everyday women. All of the world's hottest models from Giselle Bunchen, to Allesandra Ambrosio to Tyra Banks to Adriana Lima wears Victoria's Secret and we can all see why this brand continues to pave the way for being the most ultimately sexy mainstream women's brand of lingerie for women of all ages!

Now Frederick's of Hollywood offers some more naughty lingerie selections, including ultra sleek and skimpy thongs and ultra sexy pieces that any woman can wear. If you are looking for lingerie that is both naughty and nice, Sexy Depot carries a wide variety to choose from for both the modest and the exhibitionist.

Just how sexy can you feel by wearing lingerie? You can expect to heighten your sexiness factor by as much as 500% by using sexy lingerie! This is great news, especially if you were not feeling very confident in your relationship or sexiness factor! But what about sexy lingerie for men? There are many different types of lingerie that men can use nowadays to turn on the ladies! Everything from sexy thongs to ultra sexy jockstraps can be used to help spice up any man's sexual relationship.

International Male and Undergear has all the best brands built into one complete site. For men that are looking for that ultimate look to impress their partners, they should definitely check out undergear as there you can find amazing and sexiest underwear such as thongs, jockstraps, etc to impress your girl!


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Thursday, April 2, 2009

Every Rejection Is A Brick In My Palace

When I was 16 years old, I had the biggest crush on this girl at school. She wasn’t the most attractive girl, but there was a certain something about her that just made her so desirable. She was different and she knew it, this only caused her to be more desirable.

For the better part of two years I devised a plan to secure her as my girlfriend. My first step was to befriend her, every chance I got I would hang out with her. I’d buy her food, take her out to music events, I even took her to see an expensive hockey game. We’d spend hours alone together at her house watching movies, playing pool and just lounging around on her bed.

Throughout it all she’d see other guys, telling me all about the dates that she’d have with them. I listened intently and gave words of encouragement; all the while every word she said ate me up inside.

This pattern repeated itself until one day I finally decided to pop the question. One night while we were alone I turned to her and let all of the emotions that I had for her run free. I told her about how I felt and how life could be if the two of us were together. After several minutes of silence she broke the news to me. She only saw me as a friend and nothing else, needless to say I was heart broken.

After that night I never spoke to her again. I distanced myself from her and her friends and avoided her whenever I possibly could. I went out and met new girls, but the memory of her and the times we spent together continued to invade my dreams and my thoughts.

Throughout it all I never once kissed her, never hugged her, I never even held her hand. Looking back on it now my thoughts and actions could best be described as irrational, almost borderline insane. Somehow in my mind I had built her up to be my girlfriend even though we failed to share any sexual or romantic connection.

Since then I’ve met numerous men who have had similar experiences with women. Some have rebounded and some still live in their delusional relationships of years past. Upon further research I found that all of the men who had rebounded shared something in common, they not only accepted their defeat and their mistakes, but they relished in them. Their defeat didn’t define them, but it served as a warning sign, a life lesson that reminded them to never make the same mistake again.

In the game there’s an expression, “Every rejection is a brick in my palace.” It’s something that I hold near and dear and I use it as almost a creed. Regardless of how good you are with women, you’re bound to face a rejection every now and then. The question is how will you let this rejection affect you? Will it make you a bitter and angry person, or will it help you improve yourself and the way you interact with others?

At the end of the day attraction is not a choice. Women are pre hardwired with attraction in mind; it’s up to us as men to target these attraction mechanisms in order to create a relationship or a mutual attraction.

If a relationship failed to materialize, then chances are you did something wrong. You didn’t cater to her needs or you left out a critical step in the attraction process. The good news is that your mistakes of the past can be corrected. You can learn from your rejection and ensure that you never fall into the same trap again.

You can affect life, or you can let life affect you. The choice is yours.

By: Ramses

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