Friday, December 5, 2008

Online Dating: The Facts.

In a recent study, it was found that 2 out of every 5 single people between the ages of 24 and 50 use, or have used, Online Dating services.

Imagine That!

Think about walking into a room where there are 100 strangers and finding out that 20 of them use the same mechanic that you do. The odds are mind boggling.

They would easily confess to using the same mechanic but they won’t confess to using an Online Dating service.

Why? There still seems to be some stigma attached to Online Dating no matter how effective and rewarding it has become. Yet, it thrives and it would be a pretty safe bet that if all 100 strangers are single and between the ages of 24 and 50 that 20 of them do use, or have used, Online Dating services.

Another fact is that only about 5% of people who use Online Dating services actually establish a relationship with someone they first make contact with.

OK, think about another room full of 100 strangers only this time they all are of the opposite sex and eligible. If you walked into that room in the real world, how many would you be attracted to? Maybe 10 if you are really lucky, right? Internet Dating is no different so don’t expect miracles.

Only 10% of people who join Online Dating sites actually get any replies and that is a truly sad fact.

The reason is that 90% don’t bother to write an interesting profile or upload pictures of themselves.

That’s a lot like fishing without baiting the hook. I wonder what they expected. The 10% who do get noticed have posted upbeat profiles and pictures.

Last but not least is that paid sites are better than free sites. The reason is that they work.

On free sites there is absolutely NO screening process at all! The fee for joining a paid site is small as compared to going out for dinner or buying movie tickets and you meet a lot more people in a lot less time if you work at it.

What Online Dating Isn’t

Now, it’s time for me to clear some assumptions and dispel the common myths about Online Dating. Some people, especially those who have lived a little longer, still think there is some stigma attached to Online Dating.

They think a person must be an odd-ball, pervert, or totally unacceptable in the real world to have to resort to using an Online Dating service. They couldn’t be more wrong.

Online Dating has exploded in the last few years. Over 40 million people of all ages, both sexes and from all over the world can’t be wrong. These same people, also, think internet dating is dangerous.

It could be but it doesn’t have to be if a person uses a little common sense. The same kind of common sense that would keep you from giving any stranger you met on the street your personal information.

We all use the internet to research almost every aspect of our lives… medical, major purchases, jobs, investments, etc. We gather information that helps us to succeed in all ways.

We make travel plans, we get information about colleges, we shop, and we download music. The internet is not just for geeks anymore. Why not use that same internet to insure our success in our personal lives? Meeting people expands our horizons and enriches our lives.

The whole world has shrunk to a single neighborhood because of the internet. Dating the girl or boy from next door could mean someone from half way around the world now.

You could find the love of your life in the town you live in or in a city 50 miles away or 1000 miles away or even in another country. The internet makes it all possible.

There is no stigma attached to using Online Dating services and it’s safe and effective. It makes good sense and is an efficient use of our time, energy and money.

It’s dating in the 21st century!

By: Chris Anson

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Monday, October 27, 2008

How To Get Acquainted With The Russian Girl.

Indeed, how to get acquainted with Russian girl? What to do, how to behave to attract her attention? Let's try to find answers.

Based on my experience and stories of my friends, I can identify two categories of places of acquaintance: high-tech space (here, you can include the Internet, sms, etc.) and of course the real space (street, subway, work, school, university, college, cafe, etc.).

The premier plus of reality is a personal contact, where it is well visible the emotive speech, and the reaction of partner, and his feelings for you... The disadvantage - a limited choice if you're not in Russia.

The main advantage of cyberspace is the same as every the abstractiveness of exterior of a partner and the familiarity especially with his internal content (we consider the situation where none of the partners is not hiding under a mask). And a great choice! Because there are several millions of Russian girls a day in the Internet now.

So the basic rule, in both spaces is the presence of a wild desire to make the acquaintance! That desire will help you in any case, because even failing once you will not leave to try again and again! Persistence is one of the fundamental qualities of a successful man!

The first phase is preparation. This phase is completely dictated by your creative kind. You should make it much, but the result will not take long to appear! The human psyche is arranged so that our attention is drawn to all unusual, bright, unlike the rest... This is one of the laws of inadvertent attention, that is the attention, which operates outside the control of our consciousness, in any case, even if we do not want to. Therefore, that very law I advise you to adopt.

You must be unusual in your photo and correspondence! But what will be the unusual in you - it's up to you. Either clothing or hairstyle, it may be piercing (mainly do not overdo, to not be similar to the pads for needles), and it may be unusual chip... Perhaps you will be with a book in the hands, or eye-catching fashion magazine, or you might just deliver quite unexpectedly some interesting and unusual words... This can be anything and if to begin to describe all this, I'm afraid there will not be enough either force or time... So try to be creative and I am sure you will find for yourself exactly what must be!

The age is of no small importance in acquaintances. It is even said that age sometimes stands in second place after the appearance and charm. If you already are about 30, the age does not cause difficulties in acquaintances with the women, but if you are 20 or even younger...

The majority of Russian women and girls have a well-established stereotype of to the "relationship with young people who are for many years younger than they are." This stereotype has been smooth over or disappears with age, but it is particularly pronounced among persons aged 14 - 20 y.o. This is well explained by two factors:

In this age interval, the speed of physical and mental development of young men and women is different, and the latter is slightly lower than the first. As a result, the girls feel, even their peers are younger and sillier, not to mention the boy who is under. For the Russian girls in this age period is very important the point of view of girlfriends and mothers, who often do not approve the relationship with a young man who is a few years younger than girl. But, as mentioned earlier, with the age the stereotype grows weaker or disappears, because the gap between the development of girls and boys is gradually declining and then has been smooth over at all.

If you want to get acquainted with Russian girl, whose age is not more than 20, then try to "find" a person that is your peer or younger than you. If the object of your admiration is already over 30, the lady will likely be honored with the attention of young person who is under her. But do not forget that all rules have exceptions.

By: Julia Pika

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Wednesday, October 22, 2008

How To Help A Russian Girl To Find You

Here is a little secret, which not all men know: Russian women, even very beautiful, value in the men primarily self-confidence and diversity of interests. You are surprised? Yes, the self-confidence and versatility are much more important than appearance for the Russian women of all ages. This applies both to dating in real life and online as well, that we are now talking about.

If you sign up for online dating site, you will find out that there are far more women than men there. But those who look through the questionnaires and make the first step in most are men, this is in the "traditional" about the role of men. Women are interested in only those questionnaires which somehow catch them. So always has been and so will be, some things do not have been changed. That's why your profile and photo are very important.

Tactics of dating you can select yourself: to begin introducing the first, or to wait until your questionnaire is noticed and someone writes to you. If you prefer the first, ie to take the initiative yourselves, it is best to think out the original greeting for your first message, to motivate, arouse girl's interest and encourage her to answer you. Do not use the standard phrase: «Hey! How you doin'?», «What the mood?», «Hey! Let's learn about each other», Etc. Someone will accept it though. But you soon will get tired with such messages, the other women will be sending you. And you will filter out such women, since it would be uninteresting to response for the umpteenth time that «all serene», «good mood», «we'll introduce». The same «your» woman will notice you, if you distinguish yourself with the original greeting.

Remember, the confidence and versatility, but do not confuse these concepts with a brash and selfishness. It is important that the woman understands that you have friends that you care, and that you are interested in various things, not just football. And another important detail: Do not begin a story about you with "I am of those guys, your mom had cautioned you against."

You will kill you with this phrase. Another phrase that you should never use: "I can be a man of your dreams." You can, but the girl has to deal with that question, so you do not offend her ability to make decisions. Do radiate the confidence and versatility, and you'll find your dream girl.. or she will find you.

Would not be nice if the girls themselves were acquainted with you? Well, you have a chance, if you create unconventional profile, which marks you out from the crowd.

The second method of dating - to not write the first, but to wait until they write to you.

In this case, the emphasis should be placed on photos and for the content of profile. It is best to place multiple pictures, which well show your face, figure (your height), the photos where they can see exactly your «zest». Women in substance are curious and at the same time practical. They do not "love by eyes", and they often choose the men's photo with any incompleteness. Choose wisely the background! The woman is far more interested in photo taken in your kitchen, where in the background "accidentally" the part of the dumb-bell is seen (hence you watch over your health) than the picturesque photo of astride a white horse.

Photos should present you in your usual environment! Tip: put the «fresh» photos, there is no need to place photographs of five years ago. All the same, with the meeting if it happens, you will have to appear as what you are now. After choosing you by photo, some women will look at your profile. Fill out the standard form of questionnaire, as well as a section «About me», which should reflect your character, your singularity and originality.

By: Julia Pika

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Thursday, October 16, 2008

How To Respond To A Woman's Internet Dating Profile

So, you see an amazingly HOT woman on She has great photos and a personality to boot! She has a great sense of humor and a very dynamic personality. You can tell she'd be a great addition to your already fulfilling life. She also lives reasonably close to you.

You just HAVE to respond to her! But how?

As you can imagine, she's probably getting 50 to 60 emails a day from every guy within a 500-mile radius. She opens her inbox to see a barrage of boring emails with subject lines that all looks the same.

"Hey baby! You're so fine!"

"Hey, nice guy here. I think you're cute!"

"Oh my GOD! You're so beautiful! Please respond to this email!"

"Baby, I want to make you my love muffin!"

And the emails get worse and worse. This is the reality of a beautiful woman on an internet dating site.

And this is GREAT news! Why?

Because, you are going to be the real MAN that stands out and gets her attention. You've already seen her profile and now you MUST find a way to get her eyes on YOU.

How do you do that? It's simple. Have a GREAT subject line in your email. If you don't have a great subject line then your email will NEVER get read. Simple as that. That's why we have to put good subject lines in our response. THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF RESPONDING TO ONLINE DATING PROFILES!

Now, I like to use subject lines that are ambiguous. Ones that leave her wondering, "What is he talking about?" Women love a good mystery and nothing is more mysterious then a subject line that has her wondering why you wrote it. I might write something like:

"Oh my GOD! What are you doing?"

It doesn't get more mysterious then that! When she sees an email like this in her inbox, you'd better bet that she's going to open it. Now, you need to be sure and explain it in your email to her. If you don't she'll feel tricked and move on to someone else. There are many different ways to go here. I might start off my email like this:

"I mean, here you are sitting there with 50 emails in your inbox and it took you this long to get to mine? I just might forgive you if you're up for a challenge. Then, just continue your email. See how easy that was?

The most important thing is to get her attention right off the bat. Once you do that, you're in.

So, write down a list of ten creative, eye-catching, and ambiguous subject lines similar to the example above. Then come up with ways to start off an email using each subject line. Once you have your arsenal, you're ready to respond to all the hot women in your area.

By: Christophe

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Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Career of Anna Semenovich. Thanks to the beautiful breasts?

The latest rumors. Anna Semenovich returns for Sporting.

In a recent interview beauty Anna Semenovich has mentioned that she would return to the big sports. Now the actress, along with other members of the "Ice Age" project goes on tour across the country.

Incidentally, during a recent show in the City of Lipetsk, Anna managed to fall on the ice twice. Culprit of the first drop was the partner of Anna, actor Alexei Makarov. Artist has not kept the girl, and full-bosomed beauty fell down. For the second time the two partners have already landed in the heart of the rink.

However, the public did not condemn the couple of these faults. In the auditorium, by contrast, they took it with delight and bestowed Anna and Alexei Makarov with stormy applause.

Talks of Semenovich's returning in sports have been exaggerated before. It was even that she will participate in the Olympics-2010 in Canada.

Recall, 6 years ago Honored Master of Sports Anna Semenovich paired with Roman Kostomarov parted the six best dance pairs in the world. After the operation on the meniscus doctors banned Anna to resume training within two years, a long time for an athlete. So Anna left the ice.

"It was like the fact that you reach out for an apple, and when you about get at it, the branch is suddenly broken. But I want again to dedicate myself to figure skating," - Anna shared. By this token since she returned to the ice, the ex-"brilliant" run on telling all of her sporting achievements. It shows that the girl again become keen on figure skating.

Now Anna is planning a career in the women's single skating. Who will be her coach, is not yet known.

However, the producer of the show "Ice Age", a famous figure skater Ilya Averbukh told that Anna will not be able to return to the ice as a professional. "All this is "Public Relations", which her producer invented" - Averbukh said. - "Trying to draw attention. After all, they need to tell about something else but Anna's breasts, really? Well, think yourself: how can a man after such a long break (actually Anna left figure skating at the age 18) to return to professional sports? This is impossible. As it is she run such a rich life: shooting in the series, recording the first album ... "

But the sport has seriously hardened Anna, it made of her a strong woman, a strong person who will be able to catch up. In fact, leadership qualities that are inherent to athletes, helped her to achieve much in life. Perhaps the only indeterminate point in the biography of Semenovich is the personal life.

"I feel like a family, children, but my heart is still free" - Anna always repeats in an interview. Of course, for such a beautiful, self-confident, independent, successful woman it is difficult to find the man by becoming.

By Anna's view, he should be a honest, intelligent and with a good sense of humor. "The last quality in our time has been a great rarity itself, I can not understand why. But we women bitter want that the man was not bored ever-ever" - Semenovich sighed . - In addition, he must earn not less than me and ... wear clean shoes."

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Saturday, October 4, 2008

Scientists Have Brought The Ideal Formula For The Woman's Bust.

Cosmetic surgeons have determined what type of breast is most consistent with the ideal. The main thing is that the nipple should be a little string up, and the upper half - slightly smaller than the bottom.

Patrick Mallucci spent considerable time studying photos of naked models in magazines and tabloids to formulate his theory. The results of the work he presented at international conference on breast enlargement, which opened in London. He hopes that surgeons carrying out such operations, will benefit of them.

In his report Mallucci writes: "I studied a large number of photographs of topless most popular models, to raise their combined proportions and understand what makes them attractive. The results have enabled me to form a template on which you can plan an operation to increase breast and set aesthetic standards".

According to experts, the key aesthetic elements are nipple position and the proportion between the upper and lower half of breast. "The ideal ratio - is 45% to 55%, that is when the nipple is not in the middle of the brest, and some at around 45% of the size of the breast from the top" - Mallucci said. He is adding: "All models, which I considered, are consistent with those parameters. It is generally recognized that they have beautiful breasts. None of them have not yet done an operation to increase the breast."

Malucci said that the most beautiful breast the American model Caprice Bourrette has - a view shared by many of his clients. He added that women are also often asking not to do them breasts as shape as "unnaturally round" breast of Victoria Beckham.

Breast enlargement - is the most popular cosmetic surgery operation in Britain. Last year they made 6156.

Friday, October 3, 2008

Small Breasts: Does Size Really Matter?

Written by Sandra

It’s a debate I have had with my girlfriends for years. The grass is often greener on the other side, and so women continually exchange reasons why it is enviable to have either larger or smaller breasts.

No doubt, breast size has a strong impact on a woman’s mental well-being as well. After all, it's impossible to ignore the emphasis our culture places on breast size. From puberty to adulthood, a woman faces idealized norms and contemplates her potential to measure up. Biases exist against women with large breasts as well as small breasts. A girl or woman with larger breasts may deal with assumptions about her sexuality. A girl or woman with smaller breasts may feel inadequate. Recognizing that these external and internal pressures exist, we must encourage girls and women to become comfortable with their own bodies.

The bottom line for all women is that you shouldn’t expect more or less from your body because of your breast size.

Thursday, September 25, 2008

Super Mini Bikini.

This is what I found on the Internet - a bathing suit like this. Whether this is a super mini bikini, or it should be better to put on going to nudist beach. Actually, it is no secret that the men like bikini. But everything should be kept within limits. Frankly say, I was in two minds, whether to post this in the blog or not, but the women's curiosity took the upper hand. I am very interested to hear the opinions of men. Would they like to see such a bikini on their girlfriends, or let those swimsuits wear other girls, not yours? Please leave your comment.

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Sunday, September 14, 2008

Seven Things I Never Knew About French Kissing

by: clsfd kidd

Things I learned about French kissing.
I come from a very strict religious community. This community frowns on worldly pursuits such as getting laid and focuses on the more eternal goals, like killing Ragnaros. This community I come from is called by many names, but is easily identified by the racist slang, "The Geeks".

As an upstanding member of the Geek community, I never really had the opportunity to kiss anyone remotely attractive, and simply accepted the possibility that I may spend the rest of my life ogling females and considering suicide.

That was until a few nights ago. A party hosted by a heathen non-geek was in the neighborhood, and since I had done homework for the host, I was invited. It was kind of strange to go a party that was not centered around destroying evil, but actually participating in it.

Anyway, to get on with the anticipated list of seven things I never knew about French Kissing...

Foreplay is Awesome, Even for a Guy
I spent around three hours talking and slow-dancing with an amazing woman. The 30-second-rule about men is not completely true. I can imagine how badly it would have gone if I had come on too fast, but the way it was, I was actually going too slow for her, so she was actually jumping MY bones. A better complement cannot be asked for.

Women are Not Made of Steel, Stone, or Plastic
This is a little hard to explain to someone who has not been pressed up against a living, female body. Women are just as bony, squishy, and sweaty as men are. For someone who has spent their entire life seeing women on computer screens or magazine pictures, that person cannot properly imagine what a real woman is like.

Women are Short
Really short. They are like little Halflings. Or cute dwarfs. Really, I had no idea what to do with someone who was that close to the floor all the time. When you are slow dancing with a short person, it can be a little awkward. The really only good place to put her head while you are dancing is to rest it against your chest, because there is no way on earth that you can put it on your shoulder, even if you squat down.

A Muscular Chest Goes an Incredibly Long Way
No, pecs are not only for wrestlers, gays, and gay wrestlers. Pecs are not so you can look nice in a tight shirt. I never knew this before, but when a woman rests her head on your chest, you will know with an unshakable knowledge what pecs are for. And you will be unbelievably glad you went to that really gay gym. You will either thank God or become very religious when this happens.

Women's Noses Are a Lot Longer Than They Look
When you feel something with your face, you get a lot more information in your brain than you would just by looking at it. So when you put your face up against the face of another person, you can learn things that nobody else could know unless they did it, too. And one of those things, is your dancing partner's nose is actually pressing up against your cheekbone. And on a side note, when you are this close to someone, you can sync with their breathing. This sensation can only be described as gorgeous.

Kisses Are Not the Sloppy, Grandmother Things You Hated as a Child
The mouth is the most sensitive place on your body. This is why children always put everything in their mouths when they want to learn about it. There is a massive, massive array of nerve endings in and around your mouth. Placing your lips on another pair of lips is a very nice feeling. But, OH MAN! The TONGUE! There is so much information being poured into your brain when you French kiss that you will either experience a cardiac arrest, or permanently and instantly lose 25 IQ points. You will feel every taste bud, every pore of that woman's mouth. And, OH MAN, she's moving her tongue!

She's moving the...

I think that the...

Oh please, just let...

Uh, whoa.

That was really something else. Did I just black out there?


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Saturday, September 6, 2008

Women Are Born To Shop.

Men who hate trawling the shopping centres now have the perfect excuse to stay at home.

Experts have found women are much better than men at finding their way around stores and locating products.

They excel at remembering the location of fruit, vegetables and high-calorie treats.

The researchers say the phenomenon has its roots deep in evolution, in the activities of our forebears.

While men developed the acute sense of direction needed for hunting, women mastered the art of gathering food such as fruits and berries.

According to the University of California researchers, these traits have been passed down, meaning men are better at reading maps while women are stars at shopping.

To test their theory, they sent 86 men and women on a trip around a farmers' market.

Each was given a list of stalls to visit and foods to sample.

They were then asked how much they had liked the foods and to map out the locations of the stalls they had visited.

The women were much more accurate in remembering the stalls' positions.

Further analysis revealed that their memories were influenced not by how much they liked the foods but by the number of calories they contained.

Foods with a high calorie count, such as almonds, olive oil and honey, were remembered better than vegetables and other foods which provide less energy for their size.

Writing in the journal Proceedings of the Royal Society B, the res-earchers said this is further evidence of an evolutionary origin, as our ancestors would have needed to memorise the location of the foods that would give the most energy.

They said: "The finding that nutritional quality enhances spatial memory further supports the idea that our task is engaging a foraging-related spatial adaptation."

Men, they said, tend to be better at map-reading - a skill honed through 'pursuing mobile prey over erratic and unpredictable courses'.

British research published this week used our hunter-gatherer ancestors to explain women's preference for pink.

The Newcastle University psychologists said it was likely women honed an ability to pick out the colours when foraging for ripe fruits.

Thursday, September 4, 2008

Can we play on women's weaknesses?

Can we play on women's weaknesses? You need not to play on women's weaknesses, but to use the womanliness in reasonable way is possible. Every woman: Russian, French, English or any other nationality, by her nature is individual, but I still choose the most common women's weakness, which are located from the least-meaningful ones to the most…

One of the women's weaknesses a chocolate can be called and the sweets in general. Females like to treat themselves with all those "delicious": candy, ice cream, marmalade or, finally, the cake will always be pertinent, by the way, if you go to see her. Rather, you should not be against, with all these sweets. Of course, if she will share with you…

Fluffy and not very ones, large and small - all of them bring joy to woman. Even a keychain for cell phone, implemented as a small animal that you gave her not only in regard to your wedding anniversary, birthday or March of 8th without fail will enjoy her. The surprises, gifts with humor or with the intent, or maybe romantic note will please your beloved by remarkable sense of focus, sensitivity and romance.

Talks on the phone
Women can talk on the phone for hours - about anything. They can discuss everything and at the same time, nothing, nothing substantive, important, just talk, gossip, discussion, on someone or something.

This is followed by weakness to flowers. Women love when they are given flowers to the occasion and without it, a chic bouquet or modest one, no matter. Anyway, this is attention, and women value this.

A woman more than man, is inherent to this human weakness, as a curiosity. She is very interested either in what you think about her and what your friends think about her, what is the view on her from your parents. It is also interesting to know with whom you have met before, by what threads you are bound to a man and what is a destiny of your friend or your former lover.

Love for a variety of trinkets, ornaments and jewelry. Women love jewelry and they love when they are given these decorations, because in their view they deserve all these gifts. Thrust to the beauty and perfection is a remarkable propensity, and a provided feasible assistance in this will not remain not noticed. The best friends of girls are diamonds…

The women's competition
Why do women often compete with each other? Because even one of their weaknesses is the thirst of limelight. Being in the center, both male and female attitudes, be a cause for gossip and talk behind their backs, all of this gives them self-confidence and inner satisfaction. This raises the need to keep the fashion, to maintain good physical shape, to take care of their appearance.

Pleasant words in her address
A woman like (as, indeed, and a man) when she gets compliments. If her attractive appearance draws attention on the party, she will become even more beautiful, if they commend her sense of humor, she will crack jokes sorely even greater. Indulging with women's weaknesses will bring her joy, comfort, tenderness and once again will prove the sincerity of your emotions.

Women love to shop and spend money on clothes, shoes, accessories and cosmetics... It is adopted to consider that the shopping removes a stress, but as to the female, it often turns into a real mana. Dressing from the leading designers, to buy expensive clothing brands is the desire of each woman. A woman can buy the outfit and wear it only once, and is in the order of things! As long as money is - and women can find how to spend it.

Man's attention
Each woman seeks male attention, ways and means to achieve it have no meaning for her. Even the most, seemed at first glance, inaccessible men will fall before her charming, unless, of course, she does not chooses so. It is just statistics confirms that the men who are more difficult to tame, enjoy a high woman's demand. But along with the hunting for men the woman unusually subtle feels and craves the gentle touch. Light massage of shoulders, stroking on the back, sweet kiss - and she has already forgiven, she is ready to echo by her tenderness and warmth.

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Sunday, August 31, 2008

Taking A Walk On The Wild Side With Lingerie

Whether you are looking to feel great about yourself or you are looking to move forward and really make your intentions clear when it comes to what you want out of your relationship, you'll find that you might have an interest in moving forward and letting your underwear do the talking. When you are thinking about underwear, you are thinking about a very intimate thing, and you might find that with just a little bit of work and a little bit of time, you'll be able to say it all just with what you are wearing.

Take the time to look at your lingerie and think about how you are going to be going forward.If you are looking to get underwear that makes you feel wonderful sexy, take some time to think about what you want from it. What impression are you trying to make? If you want to be more meek and demure, you'll find that there are plenty of different options that will allow you to stop and really look your Victorian best!

On the other hand, take some time to think about how you want to get the fact that you are feeling aggressive and self confident across. What is going to make you feel on top, in charge and totally happy to be there?When you are looking at wild lingerie, think about what is going to frame your personality the best. Just because you are a little shy doesn't mean that you still can't get wild. You'll find that wild lingerie is the eye of the beholder and that all you need to know is that you need to look happy wearing it.

Stop and consider what you are going to look for when it comes to wild lingerie that is really going to enhance your personality and show you off to the best advantage. For some people, wild lingerie is the decorum and tight lacing of a corset, while for others, it's a g string and nothing else!For people who are looking at the step between lingerie and totally naked, why not think about clear lingerie?

Clear lingerie can refer to lingerie that is barely there, or it can refer to lingerie that is wonderfully sheer, using lace or fishnet to show off everything that you have while still keeping you from being totally naked. You'll find that with just a little bit of work that you'll be able to stop and really consider what you want out of your clear underwear, so think about what you are looking to get across and what you want to make sure that everyone sees!Looking for the perfect wild lingerie for you is a great way to feel confident and totally in charge of yourself. This is something that you should think about, and you'll find yourself feeling quite smug when you do!

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Friday, August 29, 2008

Are Russian Ukrainian People Europeans Or Asiatics?

It is a difficult and old question. A lot of people have been disputing about it. The answer also depends on what to take into consideration.

If we speak about the territory, Russia is an Asiatic country without doubt. Almost 75% of Russian territory is situated in Asia and only 22% in Europe. But as to the population, 78% of Russian people live in the European part and only 22% in the Asiatic part.

In Soviet times people often migrated. And a lot of people from the Asiatic part came to live to the European part of Russia and to Ukraine. These people brought their traditions and culture with them. And some of these traditions and culture assimilated among people who lived there.

So European and Asiatic cultures are mixed there very much and nobody can answer this question exactly.

One famous man said: '' Russians behave like Asiatics in Europe and like Europeans in Asia". These words concern Ukrainian people too.

Maybe that is why Russian Ukrainian character is considered strange. As it is typical neither for Europeans, nor for Asiatics. The Asiatic traits of Russian Ukrainian people are:
- Some character traits: cunning, collectivity, aspiration for profit, they are less rational;
- The state is more important than a personality;
- There are a lot words from oriental languages in Russian and Ukrainian languages;
- Connections are very important. For example if you want to find a good job, you should have connections.

The European traits of Russian Ukrainian people are:
- Christian religion;
- Culture;

So if you want to understand Russian Ukrainian people you should be a European and Asiatic person at the same time.

By: Anna Smehova

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Thursday, August 28, 2008

How To Avoid Scammers On Russian Ukrainian Dating Sites

Scammers are dangerous, because you can waste very much time and money on them and at the end be back where you started.

I must admit there are a lot of scammers on Russian Ukrainian dating sites.

But don't get upset about it. Imagine you are a gold-digger on Alaska. You sift rock in order to find a piece of gold. I think it is even interesting to be a gold-digger.:) If you follow my advice, you will sift out all the scammers. And as a result you will have a pure piece of gold - a woman who is really interested in you and whom you will be able to call your wife.

So how to recognize a dating scammer:

1.) The girl doesn't want to speak to you on the phone or she is not happy when you phone her. It is important. She is not really interested in you. Don't believe that she has no time. If a girl really wants to marry a foreign man, she will be happy to speak to him on the phone sometimes.

2.) Be attentive in order to notice lack of coincidence in her letters. If she tells you something and then later she tells the opposite.

3.) She doesn't remember what you have already discussed with her. It means that she writes to a lot of men and she is not very interested in your correspondence.

4.) There is a very big difference in the age. Probably my words will disappointed you. I understand your desire to marry a very young girl. But if, for example, your are sixty and she is twenty, you haven't much chances to marry her.

5.) The girl tells that she loves you, though she has never met you in a real life.

6.) She sends you formal letters or you sometimes receive letters with the same content. That means that she has examples of such letters and sends them to a lot of men.

7.) She often doesn't answer your questions.

8.) She sometimes call you by the wrong name. It also means that she writes to many men and doesn't treat you seriously.

9.) She doesn't ask serious questions in order to learn more about your way of life, tastes and so on.

10.) She asks you to send money for learning English, for visa or to help her. It is the main sign of scammers.

Don't send her money at the beginning of your acquaintance. If you met her in real life and there was real attraction between you, you can send her money for coming or for learning foreign language. But you run risks all the same.

11.) If you don't send her money, she loses interest for you.

12.) When you come visit her, she doesn't want to spend with you as much time as possible.

And the main don't forget to use your intuition and brains, when you write to a beautiful girl.:)

By: Anna Smehova

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Monday, August 25, 2008

How To Get Girls To Like You Or How To Identify Your Sticking Point With Girls

Let’s be real: you read this because you want to get more girls - of course, that’s what every guy wants. But more importantly you read this because you are not that good with girls. And you want to improve yourself. The thing is: In order to improve yourself, you need to know what to improve:

Maybe you are shy, maybe you have some nervous ticks speaking with women, maybe you play the funny guy to smooth over your insecurity. Or maybe your mind simply goes blank facing a beautiful girl. Maybe you don’t care about grooming and looks. Maybe you endlessly search for the right moment to kiss the girl or don’t use touching at all and always end up in the friends zone. There are many areas you can have difficulties in.

So, first you have to identify your problem, your sticking point with women. Here is what you can do to find out where your problem with girls might be:

1) Think about the past situations with women and what went wrong. Try to see the whole situation from her perspective – would you like this guy and would you think this guy has got girls in his life? If the answer is “no” – why? Compare yourself with successful guys – what do they do and you don’t?

2) Ask your friends and try to get an honest answer on how they see you interacting with women. Let them speak, don’t interrupt and don’t search for any excuses. Accept what they say – in most cases they see the right picture and you are the one who doesn’t want to accept the reality. Most guys don’t get over this point because admitting a weakness normally lowers your self-esteem. And nobody likes that. Hence most of the guys never really get better with women. Be the difference: Accept that you have to change things and start working on it.

3) Tape yourself on video to see how other people perceive you. It really gives you a reality check. Practice as long as you finally like “this” guy on the tape and your results with girls will skyrocket as you will become much more self-confident. And self-confidence is what girls are really looking for in a guy as it demonstrates a high status.

4) Get more information on attraction and psychology (internet, book store). You have to be aware of the basic principles of human interaction. But don’t overdo it. You don’t need all the books, two or three are enough at the beginning. The information you get from them is only there to know why something works. But it’s absolutely worthless if YOU don’t use it in the real life. You only get better if you go out and approach girls. The lack of experience with girls is the number one reason why guys don’t get the right results with girls. Here’s how you get the most out of the information you receive: break it apart and try one thing after another. If you read something new, go out and try it (and only it) until you get the right results. Only then you can go on and try other stuff.

If you need more information (attraction, openers, body language aso.) I can recommend this e-Book.

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Tips In Write An Excellent Dating Profile.

Online dating is a great way of meeting people and to find you life partner. First you must find the right dating site for you. Remember to be successful with online dating, you need a good profile. If you want to meet the right person for you, then you must take your time in creating your profile. Go thru some of the profiles on the site and try to be different from them all. A lot of the profiles on the dating sites are similar and are boring.

A Good dating profile is informative with lots of information on your lifestyle, personality, looks, likes and dislikes. You should also give the person an idea of the type of relationship you are looking for (friendship, long term, serious) and the type of person you are looking for.

* First find the right username. Your username says a lot about you. It’s the first thing people see, so make it stand out, be creative and adventurous
* Find an interesting heading that will stand out from the rest
* Click right boxes in your profile. Like age, interests….
* Upload at least 1 good photo of yourself. People are looking for photos. A photo speaks a thousand words. Not nude photos.
* Change your photos as often as you can, just to keep it interesting and the people can see you in different ways
* A good profile is between 200-250 words.
* Check your spelling and grammar. It is very important.
* Be honest in you profile and use feeling. Be positive.
* Think of how your friends will describe you and describe yourself according to them.
* Describe the person you are looking for. Age, looks, personality, hobbies……
* Use your own style and be yourself in your profile. Don’t pretend to be someone.
* Promote your good qualities.
* Use feeling and add emotion and be positive.
* Don’t add personal details.

A huge no-no is, avoid being Negative, know one wants to hear, “I don’t know what I am really doing here” or someone complaining about themselves, live, work and family.

Remember your profile is about getting that perfect response that you are looking for, so make it as interesting and adventurous as you are.

With a good profile you will attract more people and also the right person you are looking for. Don’t lie in your profile. The truth always comes out. Don’t be a big talker or a show off. People don’t like that. Find the love of your life and find your perfect match.

The next important step is to reply to your messages or email. Be honest in them to and also take care in answering them. Have self respect and dignity, treat others the way you want to be treated.

Good luck with your online dating and in creating your profile. Online dating can be great fun and you can find your soul mate on any decent dating site which you log onto.

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Friday, August 22, 2008

Why Online Dating Is A Savior To Our Generation.

Why the Dating Site And Not The ordinary dating approach? Many people demonize online dating but ask me and i will tell you that online dating is the most decent way of finding love. When you are buying something important you window shop all around the shopping malls looking for what you want and comparing prices. You get the best offer without compromising the quality. You deserve the best dress, shoes, the car and also the best partner there can be according to your personality. You cannot sit back and wait for something good to find you sleeping. Not even prayers can give you a good partner if you do not put some effort in to it. Online dating has come to correct the dating mistakes done in the past. It is now possible to get him as you like him. Don't gamble with your life. It is a sin.

Is there anything like perfect match in this world? This was our topic of discussion with a group of friends last night. It got me thinking, is there anybody who does what you want without being probed, looks like what you want and compliments you in every way? They all argued that there was no such a person. They said that there is a part of their partner that sweeps them off their ground and there is another side which makes them want to walk away and never turn back. This clearly shows that people are learning to like what they get but not getting what they like. It is very sad to have to put up with a mess because you cannot clear it. That is why couples are in so many unhappy relationships. If only we can embrace online dating services the divorce rate can immensely go down.

Why am i advocating for online dating? This is because for one, it encourages self identity. When you are writing about yourself it brings a special kind of awareness. When you say that i am a tall lady of light complexion, i am fun loving and adventurous, the words echo in your head and they bring back realization. Spoken words easily and carelessly come out of our mouths but a written word has a more weighty meaning. This help you to be more keen while looking for people's characters and personalities because you are sure of what you would want in a spouse. Not so long ago, parents were given the responsibilities of choosing a spouse for their children but times have changed a lot.

Nowadays there are a lot of fun activities like musical live shows, movies and visiting the national parks. You need a person whom you share a view about the world to move on. Online dating makes it possible for the searching party to browse through detailed personal profiles where you will find the peoples' requirements and preferences and compare with your own. It is very possible to come out of the exercise with a perfect match and live your life with no regrets. It is very painful when a spouse messes your life up. Tolerating your spouse in the name of peace and premature death as a result of emotional stress should not be your portion. Your perfect match is just some few clicks away.

By: Francis K Githinji
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Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Fine Sexy Lingerie: The Pleasure And Passion Of Wearing Them

Wearing fine sexy lingerie could ignite the mood and change the ambience. Find out why.

Fine sexy lingerie primarily serves the purpose of enhancing an array of body parts such as the breasts, buttocks, and abdomen. This is the reason in making choices of which product to buy. Fine sexy lingerie, however, serves other purposes such as for fun, pleasure and passion.
Believe it or not, it does not take for an individual to get married before thinking of the artistic function of the number of sexy lingerie in the market. As it is also called exotic lingerie, its functions range from the ordinary to the most unusual sense at that.
Exotic lingerie was basically created for fashion. However, as time flies people come to think of it as part of gratification, fun and desire. It provides not just support but in a number of ways delight and enjoyment. Here are some of the tips what will make wearing your lingerie a pleasurable one:
· When you wear them, make sure that you feel confident about it. Choosing from the wide variety offered in the market, you have to make sure that you consider the comfort and ease you would feel when you wear the lingerie. Fine sexy lingerie are not merely purchased for reasons that you might want showing them off to others. The most important thing to consider is how good you would feel about yourself when you have them underneath your clothes.

· Be happy with the sexy lingerie given by your partner during special occasions. Learn to appreciate the thought that he would give you something extraordinary for a romantic occasion. For sure your partner made the necessary observations in choosing fine sexy lingerie for you. He definitely took hints on colours, comfort and style.

· Wear your fine sexy lingerie during intimate moments with your loved one. Your partner would definitely appreciate the idea of seeing you put on something he had given you. This is a sign that you have full appreciation for the gift. He would love seeing you in a lingerie and it would certainly ignite the mood.

· Plan a pyjama party the lingerie party way. Pyjama parties are for kids whilst fine sexy lingerie parties are for adults. This is a fun get-together party for you and your close friends.

· Strip tease. Strip tease shows are exciting and fun for men and women alike. In movies, we see both men and women having fun at strip tease parties. Plan the party with your partner. Set a good mood for doing so. Make sure that both of you focuses on the moment, not on work or anything else that may make the party turn out to be a failure.
The passion for wearing fine sexy lingerie gives an intimate mood for lovers. It sets your frame of mind into a higher sense of emotion thereby deepening your sense of excitement and intimacy. Wearing fine sexy lingerie in the right time at the right mood with the right people would change the atmosphere. It could contribute to ironically ferocious, decent mood.

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Monday, August 18, 2008

Lingerie Open Bust

Sexy Lingerie is defined in many ways; it all depends on the wearer. Some women feel adventurous when buying lingerie and others may feel a little more reserved; either way, the market is full of fabulous and wonderful sexy lingerie. Feeling sexy and attractive is an important thing to many women. Sexy lingerie can transform the shy, innocent woman into a lustful being.

Lingerie is all about utilizing the visual senses. Men and women alike are very visual creatures and what we see makes much of how we feel. Sexy and luring lingerie can be as fantasy filled or subtle as you like. Lingerie open bust garments are incredibly sexy and fantasy filled, leaving not too much to the imagination. Lingerie open bust garments offer a bold statement for love, but also work magically for those low cut, revealing tops and blouses that still require a bit of support.

New sheer lingerie and lingerie open bust garments have become the new lingerie fashion craze. These undergarments may not leave much to the imagination, but they do add a sense of sensuality and sexiness. Wearing new sheer lingerie or open bust lingerie, a woman can feel more attractive and sensual about her body; this is a great self image booster. Attitude is everything when it comes to being sexy. If you don't feel sexy, you will not appear sexy. Size does not matter when it comes to looking sexy. How you feel on the inside and what you wear on the outside is a powerful combination.

When a woman puts on an open bust brassier or a pair of crotch less panties, she instantly becomes alluring and desirable. New sheer lingerie and lingerie open bust garments are more comfortable these days too, thanks to the new "micro lingerie". The fabrics used to design these garments are stretchy, form-fitting and soft, creating a sensual look and feel. Sexy lingerie designs not only enhance the male's desires, but are often times more appealing to the woman wearing the new sheer lingerie or lingerie open bust.

Lingerie, such as sexy, sheer or lacy bras can make the most of any woman's breast size, small or large. Panties made of sheer lingerie fabrics or "see-through" lace are ultra sexy. New sheer lingerie styles of the classic baby doll or a sensual pair of "booty shorts" seem to be the new craze in lingerie.

If a woman has legs from here to New York, a pair of silky, sheer stockings combined with an incredibly sexy open bust bra or new sheer lingerie teddy can be your ticket for a night of passion. Wearing sexy lingerie or new sheer lingerie is easy; first discover what part of your body you most desire yourself. If you feel that your bust is your best attribute, then lingerie open bust wear is for you; if your belly is your prize then try on a new sheer lingerie teddy for size and start feeling more beautiful, sexy, desirable and adventurous today!

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Saturday, August 16, 2008

Personality Traits That Attract Women Or How To Attract Women

A lot of guys believe that being nice to a woman will get them somewhere. But let’s be realistic, women don’t like nice guys. The reason is that nice guys demonstrate too much neediness and thus women already unconsciously feel that those guys have a low status. And the number one thing women look for in a man is a high status. That’s why women are attracted to:

1) Jerks. Women are attracted to guys who demonstrate strength, but not through muscles, but through dominance and self-confidence (alpha male behavior). The alpha guy is a type of man who can demonstrate that he is successful and has women in his life. He is not needy like the nice guys. The alpha guy always sets the tone, never looks for approval and always has a plan where to go and what to do. He never asks the woman “What would you like to do?” He knows what he wants and decides over her head. And he is successful with it because women like leaders.

2) Successful people. It doesn’t matter in which area you are successful – as long as many people acknowledge that you are successful. Otherwise we are talking about an illusion. Women like successful guys because women associate success with higher status and wealth (ok, normally we all do that). Actually, the important thing here is: Simply displaying the desire for successful can be just as powerful. If you can demonstrate that you have goals in your life and are passionate about them, women will automatically feel attracted to you.

3) Guys who can talk. There is one quality you really need to become good in interacting with women. It’s storytelling. Learn how to tell an interesting story. There is no need to learn 20 stories by the heart. If you can tell one or two stories without problems, it’s enough. Actually, guys who are good with women tell the same story again and again. But it’s not only about what you tell but how you tell it. Try to be excited about your story, show some emotions, include some hand gestures (not too much) and insert pauses to build suspense or humor. Speak clearly and don’t mumble. Don’t speak too fast, because it makes your voice sound higher. Don’t forget: Your tone of voice affects how people respond to you and a high voice is not perceived to be one of authority. Deeper voices in contrast have more credibility.

4) Well-dressed guys (it’s not a personality trait, but it’s important anyway).

First of all, let’s clear out a common misunderstanding: Dressing well is not about buying the most expensive stuff, but about style. And style means that your clothes fit. Clothes that are too big or too small demonstrate you don’t care about your looks. But if you don’t, who will?
Again, you don’t have to be rich and famous to dress well. When it comes to looks, it’s more about presentation than anything else – your clothes only have to convey an interesting identity. You don’t have to “peacock”, but you have to stand out from the crowd.

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Friday, August 15, 2008

How To Find A Great Partner -11 Things To Do

You don't need to have any kind of preparation whatsoever in order to find a partner. But, in order to find a great partner, you need to have even more preparation than you would to find a great job. The successes in our life don't happen by accident or without effort.

The more of the things that you do on this list, the better partner you will find.

DECIDE ON WHAT YOU WANT FIRST - When you go shopping for food, there are those essential things that you don't want to forget like bread and milk although you end up buying many things. When you look for a partner, you need to be able to tell the important from the extras. You can't live on chips.

USE THE POWER OF VISUALIZATION - Our minds help us to achieve whatever we imagine. Use the power of your mind to help you find a great partner by clearly and repeatedly imaging such a person. You may already do this for sports or for oral presentations. It works for personal relationships too.

MAKE FRIENDS OR SPEND MORE TIME WITH FRIENDS - Friends help us to feel important and not to be lonely. Feeling unimportant and lonely will make you desire a person even if he or she is wrong for you. A starving person will eat moldy bread.

MAKE A DATING PLAN - Decide on how much time you will spend, how much money, how often you will date, etc. Having such a plan keeps you within your budget, keeps you on track, and is more likely to lead to success. Don't depend on spontaneity and luck to find a great partner.

MAKE SURE YOUR FINANCES ARE IN ORDER AND THAT YOU HAVE AN EMERGENCY FUND - Financial and emotional crises create dependencies on other people, even when they are wrong for us. Having money in the bank makes it easier to say "no" when you need to.

WORK ON YOURSELF - Get into counseling or better yet work with a relationship coach. Identify old patterns and change them or else you will just repeat them with a new person. A relationship coach will help you to identify the forces that prevent you from having success. Just wanting things to change doesn't automatically make them change.

FISH WITH THE RIGHT KIND OF BAIT - Are you a stay at home kind of person who is dreaming about an adventurous partner? Will that adventurous partner be attracted to you? It's not about pretending--it's about creating the kind of life you want to have by becoming the kind of person you want to be.

SHOP THE WORLD - If you wanted a fantastic car, would you only look for one at the local junk yard? The right person for you may be across the country or across the world. International dating takes more time than local dating and is not for the desperate and needy. But, the desperate and needy aren't going to find someone good in their backyard either.

ENJOY YOUR LIFE - Just as the best time to find a job is when you don't need one, so is the best time to find a mate. You then end up finding someone to share your great life with rather than looking for someone to make your life great. There is a world of difference.

HAVE A PASSION - Find something that is important to you and get involved. Save the whales, work for a local charity, or climb Mt. Everest. Do what turns you on in life before you look for someone who turns you on in life. Then such a person will be turned on by you.

WORK WITH A RELATIONSHIP COACH - Relationship coaches help you to get the kind of person you want while teaching you essential skills for building the relationship. Every shining star, executive, athlete, or politician you see has a coach. It helps them to be their best and to get the best.

Finding a wonderful mate takes preparation, work, and an investment of time and resources. This is true for every success in life. It is not a matter of getting lucky. It is only a matter of getting the right guidance and working consistently. The sooner you learn that, the sooner you can have what you want in life. Planning and work are characteristic of people who succeed. Are you willing to do what it takes in order to get what you want?

By: Jack Ito PhD

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Thursday, August 14, 2008

Made For Life - What Separates Boys From Real Gentleman In The Game Of Seduction

I must admit, when it comes to approaching women and having a meaningful, coherent and well thought out conversation with them (women that is) which could lead to intimacy, you can throw away everything you've ever been taught about them, theory just doesn't match up to the reality, and many a guy will testify to this.

So then, what does it take to really make a lasting impression with women?
What is it, that makes some guys have all the luck, whilst all those well meaning, well healed and well mannered gentlemen out there spend the rest of their formative years cowering in the confines of their homes watching re-runs of Everybody Loves Raymond, when they could be out in the limelight dating all the lonely vivacious single women out there?

One word - Confidence!

As easy as it may sound, just what is Confidence, and why are there different levels of confidence, some levels relating to everyday situations and the others, relating to the heart thumping foot in mouth, sweaty palm situation when we're in the presence of beauty?!

I have some good news for you!

Confidence is a learned human art form, this is a start. I call Confidence an art form for, everything that requires excellence in execution, be it F1 racing, Singing, track racing to seducing only the finest women, and getting away with it, is an cannot help but to stop and marvel at the shear genius of it...even the ladies you seduce will pause for a moment to applaud your tenacity, diction and charm!

Need I say more?

So, regardless of your level of internal insecurities and aberrations pertaining to women, your actions my Dear Watson, should you choose to go ahead with the mission,are reversible, and with stupendous results guaranteed to see you possessing a harem that even the Great Sultan would be envious of!

I think we all can attest to what the lack of confidence does for one's mojo, and what kind of results tend to manifest in our lives, so I'll skip that sordid part entirely (it is after all, depressing) and concentrate instead, on creating opportunities that will put you, every single day of your waking moments, in the path of hot blooded, male depraved, pick-your-jaw-from-the-pavement pretty women that will have your Dad rethink his strategy for having married your mom!

Sound fair?

Let's delve in, shall we...

In a nutshell, Confidence is the ability to accept who you are regardless of what inabilities you may have. It is a kind of internal mindset and belief system that affects your actions, thoughts and speech. Everything you are stems from this set of beliefs! In my opinion,appearance is the single most important and fastest route to looking or feeling confident. Regardless of internal strife or discord, you can always hide your internal emotions, albeit temporarily, by dressing the part.

Your perception of yourself has an enormous impact on how others perceive you. Having spent the best part of my life in the wild and studying the big five most dangerous animals on Planet Earth, I really understand why the most vulnerable of prey gets eaten, whilst the other, more agile and enterprising game get away with murder, literally.

So too it is with men, if you act scared, not shy by the way, there's a huge difference there but, if you act scared or, if you do not have a game plan when approaching women, you can rest assured they, (like big game) will smell your fear and lack of confidence from right across the room and have their way with you!

There's nothing as pitiful as a guy with no game plan and no confidence attempting to seduce a pretty chick in a bar, or anywhere for that matter!

It's like trying to steal candy from a kid that's just realized there's sugar in candy, and sugar tastes yummy and sweet! It's just not going to happen!

Just like animals that think or reason in identities... 1=1=1, means that, past results lead to learned behavior. Once you're whipped, each time you approach another chick, past memory kicks in, and you give up...confining yourself to a life of watching re-runs of Everybody loves Raymond on basic cable!

Admitted, it's not easy to shed off fear and shame of rejection when it comes to approaching women but, we live in a highly technical environment, and at no time in the history of the Universe has there been so much information available to it self improvement to learning how to harvest syrup from Maple trees in Canada etc!

Just like the famous sneaker brand Nike, Just Do it...whatever it takes, to rid yourself of the dry spell of not having a pretty woman to show off to our peers etc. Join a gym for the women, mooch off your fraternity brothers, go to stand up comedy gigs to laugh yourself silly with other single women or guys etc... the list is not exhaustive, but you get the idea!

In the end, by looking for the best in others, you indirectly bring out the best in yourself. Instead of putting down others, why not examine yourself. Declare to yourself that "I am the best" and don't allow anyone to decrease your morale and and confidence.

Good night...

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Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Plus Sizes: Just The Right Bra

Most women plus sizes are noticeable with their big bust. For some it’s something that they can be proud of, while for others it’s something that makes them feel uncomfortable. This is especially true if they receive jeering from the opposite gender or if their girl friends think that it looks more of a subject of comic rather than an asset. When you are in plus sizes that belong to the latter category of girls with big bust, you need to do something about the insecurity that is befalling you. The solution? Choose the right bra that fits right and makes an appearance of a bust that is proportionate to your whole body.

Although there are clothes that have a remarkable effect to hide or emphasize your bust, you can actually deal with it by simply wearing the right bra and still get the freedom of wearing anything that makes you feel comfortable under the sun. The bra should fit right so it will make you feel comfortable despite what you wear outside; whether you’re wearing tight tops or loose ones.

One of the best bras that gives you ultimate support and still de-emphasize your chest is the sports bra. This is a popular support for plus sizes women because it fits right, goes with any shape and form of any bust and movement of users and still provides ultimate comfort. If not sports bra, you can choose any bra that has the same satisfying effect and they are definitely available in plus sizes lingerie stores.

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Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Know The Reason Why She Won't Go Out With You!

Women are unpredictable by nature.

Let's say that you meet a girl that always smiles at you, always seems happy to see you, has told all her friends about you, but for some reason beyond your power of understanding she just won’t go out with you on a date. If this scenario sounds familiar then you may feel this woman is giving you mixed signals. The problem is: how do you manage the situation?

Believe it or not, women know what they want most of the time. You all just have never been taught the mind reading techniques that we expect you to have.

Here are some possible reasons she won’t go out with you:

1) You are her best friend and she doesn’t want to ruin the friendship with a relationship that may not work out. Women analyze relationships to death. A good male friend is worth his weight in gold. We don’t want to lose a fantastic friendship for just another possible relationship.

2) She may think you are the greatest thing since sliced bread but you are not her usual type of guy. Some women love hanging out with nice guys but for some indefinable reason she prefers bad boys when they date.

3) A friend of hers really likes you so you are therefore off limits.

4) Many women today have other priorities that are taking first place before relationships. If she is working her way to the top she may not have the time to devote to a relationship.

5) She may really like you but really needs you to make the first move.

Therefore her unique conservation instinct will tell her NOT to date you, while her heart will make her still show interest towards you.

What should you do when something like this happens?

1. Forget all about her for a while and start dating other girls. You will suddenly become a lot more interesting in her eyes because you will appear less available and therefore she will begin to wonder about what she might be missing out on.

2. Try to find out more about her feelings towards you from her friends, while talking about her at the same time. This way there will be an exchange of information and she will learn what you really feel from people she can trust. Yes, it sounds very high school but if you do it in a subtle way it can be effective.

3. By this time it would be a good idea to try asking her out again. Before doing this plan everything in such a way that it will surprise her and pull her out of her routines. If you suffer another rejection... it's time to move on and forget all about her.

By: Avesh Dahiya

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Sunday, August 3, 2008

A Little Lingerie Lingo.

When shopping for lingerie online, some of the item descriptions can be confusing, especially for those purchasing a gift for that special someone and are not familiar with all the lingerie terms used to described a particular fabric or style. So, let’s cover some of these terms so you can be better informed when choosing your lingerie.

First, some commonly used fabrics you may not recognize. These are charmeuse, chiffon, jacquard, lace and satin. When you see these terms, the material/fabric of the item is being described. Charmeuse is a very satiny, very soft and flowy non stretch fabric. This fabric is typically used for chemises and camisoles, slips, gowns, robes, short sleeping sets, and even blouses.

Chiffon is a fabric of sheer silk or rayon. It is a lightweight material with a slightly rough feel to it. It can be made from cotton, silk or synthetic fibers, but is usually associated with silk or nylon and can be dyed to most any shade you like. Chiffon is very delicate and must be hand washed very gently. Lace is a delicate fabric made of yarn or thread in an open web-like pattern. A Jacquard fabric has a pattern of some kind pressed into the solid background. It can be a flat or a raised pattern. It can be of any type fabric such as a knit or a spandex. Satin is a smooth fabric, as of silk or rayon, woven with a glossy face and a dull back.

Now lets discuss how they describe an item having some sort of decoration on the fabric – this is called embroidery. So if you see an “embroidered lace babydoll”, you know it’s a lace babydoll with some kind of decoration or enhancement. You may also see the term ‘applique’. This is a decoration or ornament made by cutting pieces of one material and applying them to the surface of another.

Men, if you are buying for your beautiful woman and she’s self-conscious about her breasts hanging a little, you need to be familiar with the terms ‘underwire’. Bustiers, bras, and other ‘underwire’ items have wire sewn into the fabric under the breasts to add support. You may also see items with ‘boning’; these are rigid plastic or metal strips sewn in shape wear to give structure, support and body contouring.

There are several other fabrics available which you may be familiar with, such as silk, rayon and of course leather. There are also many other terms which we did not discussed, but the ones we went over will give you a little more familiarity with what’s out there. Happy lingerie shopping!

By: Susan M.

Susan is the owner of Seduction Lane Lingerie. An online retailer of sexy lingerie, costumes and intimate apparel.

Sunday, July 27, 2008

How To Attract Girls Or The Top 3 Ways To Get Girls To Notice You

Dealing with women you want to attract is a special chapter in every man’s life. You can make a ton of mistakes interacting with women, because women are much more sensitive about social dynamics. Women can figure out how much experience you have with other women in minutes – if not in seconds.

If you wonder why, here’s the reason: Women have a much higher interaction experience than men because they:

A) in general interact more (with men and women) and even more important:

B) since they were 13 years old guys were hitting on them. So the sum of experience women have with guys is much higher than men have with women. Ergo, men have a lot to catch up on.

What does this mean for you? Simply that the more experience you get in interacting with women, the BETTER you will get (provided that you don’t make the same mistakes again and again). This means you have to practice a lot. You have to know this before you take a look at the

Top 3 Ways to Get Girls to Notice You:

1) Improve the way you dress.

Looks are NOT the most important part of attracting girls, but they are important, because they affect how somebody who doesn’t know you will assess you. People judge by the looks and you have only seconds to demonstrate that you are a man of style. Don’t mess it up with boring sweaters and dirty sneakers.

You don’t have to dress like a gigolo either. If you look like a software engineer, try to loosen your clothes a little bit - add some color to it. Get rid of plaid and Hawaiian shirts. Look for some interesting necklaces, rings or wristlets. Why? Because every woman wants to know what they stand for.

2) Be social.

This simply means that on every given event where a lot of people come together, you should interact with different women and man. Get to know people. Try to make a habit of it.

Why? Because one of the things women look for in a man is (social) status. Standing alone in a corner with a beer in your hand watching all the other people having fun is the lowest status you can demonstrate.

You think women are too busy talking to someone to notice it? As if! Women have something like a radar for social status. They notice in seconds who’s the center of attraction on a party (and feel drawn to this person) and who’s the loser nobody’s talking to.

So, try to become the center of attraction interacting with people. It’s not easy, especially if you are not a social person. But it’s no nuclear science either, that means you can learn it.

For example you can come up with: “Hi guys! I have a quick question for you - who lies more, men or women?” It’s a topic everyone likes to talk about and nobody will shut you down on this one. The tricky thing with this “opener” (a question or statement you start a conversation with) is that you need to explain why you are asking. So say something like “I read a female magazine (at the dentist) today and they did this study. Me and my buddy are arguing about it all day…”

If you are a shy person and can’t bring yourself to talk to “strangers”, please consider this: Shyness is not in your genes. It all comes back to a habit. For the most part you are shy because you don’t talk to (many) people! Make the first step, than make the second and the third. And before you can say knife being social will become your new habit.

You don’t want to change yourself? Maybe this will motivate you: If you carry on doing what you’ve always done, you’ll carry on getting what you’ve always got – the same poor outcomes (no girls, no fun, no happiness).

3) Be different.

This sounds like an ad slogan and is nonetheless a key point in attracting girls. Try to develop a unique personality, your own point of view on anything. Have concrete goals in life.

Why? Because it makes you interesting, it makes you stand out from the last 10 or even 100 guys the girl you’re talking to hooked up with. It’s a fact: Women like men with (concrete) goals as this demonstrates a strong, assertive character.

Being different also means that you can demonstrate (a special) value – something not everyone can do. This doesn’t mean that you have to play a greasy song on the guitar (but do so if you can). For example you can ask her about the last time she laughed with all her heart (say a friend asked you this and you didn’t know what to answer first). Ask her to tell you about the happiest moment of her life or a special moment in her childhood and then tell yours. Try to relate to her thoughts and feelings, but don’t overdo it.

Read up on palm reading, dream interpretation or psycho tests (it’s not that difficult to memorize this stuff as all those “tests” work with given patterns) and use it on your next date. Women love all kinds of tests.

Don’t forget: it’s not only about the content but your presentation as 90 % of the communication is non-verbal (60% is Body Language and 30% is Tone). That means you also have to learn how to read her body language. But don’t be down in the mouth: Although it’s a lot of work, it’s a lot of fun too! And you will get better every time you perform those things. So, don’t put it off, start practicing today!

P.S. You can find excellent tips on how to read women’s body language here. Did you know that if she touches (or plays with) her hair or her neck/ ears she’s probably interested in you? That if she puts on her lipstick right in front of you it doesn’t mean she wants you to kiss her?

By: Skyhigh

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