Which Of Russian Brides Leave Russia In Search For A Husband Abroad?

After the collapse of the Soviet system, Russian women have quite obsession idea to marry a foreigner. Who are these women? What does not suit them in "their" men? What other motivation drive the excellent gender? Why are Russian women seeking foreign husbands? All this is not as easy as it seems. You can write off much on the vital disorder. Abandoned Losers husbands will say that they go for the money, wised with life experience, men think that the dreams of a sweet life, derived from movies, stir up the mind. But nobody wants to look at the root of the problem. That very problem, as each woman, leaving the country takes with her a nation's gene pool.

Every born child will be a citizen of another state, his mind will work for the benefit and prosperity of other nations, his children will bring even more benefit to quite alien people. And to the question "why" the convenient and easy answer will always be found, although the cause is likely need to look for is in Russian men.

If you look at the root of the problem and its origins, then in 1990-s Russian women were moved by desire to improve their financial situation, get a fed life, a sense of confidence in the future against the backdrop of dismal poverty and destitution. Currently, number of women wishing to obtain her foreign husband has not become less but it has little other motivation.

Welfare standards more or less are stabilized, but a sense of dissatisfaction of "their" men emerged. Watching a lot of Western films about millionaires, Superman, good and attentive prince, Russian women simply are taking on boarding dating sites, marriage agencies and offices, completely forgetting that the brutal reality is fundamentally different from that dream.

Quite a widespread view that those women which go abroad in search of their husbands, are poor, ugly, with a failed career is simply wrong. Digging the materials of marriage agencies, there has been a curious picture…

Most women who leave Russia, in search of a husband-foreigner, are quite young and have a good education, wealth of many of them is above average, they have one child, were not married or divorced. It would seem, what more all of these women want that they move heaven and earth, leaving to any unexplored countries, flinging the usual lifestyles and changing the stable positions in society for the unknown. As it is known in Russia there are far more women than men, and if to sort out the economically insolvent men, lazy, ill-mannered, drunkards, so what remains to Russian brides for to build a family, birth and upbringing of children? At the time, the position of Russian men were very badly undermined by economic problems of 1990-s. At that vague time, the time of ups and downs, the collapse and revival of hopes, many men fell by spirit because of life turmoil, took to drink, and the role of head of the family gradually falls on the fragile shoulders of Russian women.

Spoilt by maternal care boys growing up, they become to create families, totally being unable to bear the burden of father, a getter and head of the family. Very often, even on the slope of years, the mothers continue to care their overgrown kids. It can be quite a lot of talk about all Russian shortcomings in which only Russian men themselves to blame.

Internet, destroying the boundaries between nations, also destroys the boundaries of communication between people. Frustrated in Russian men, Russian brides go to search for the life partners abroad.

According to statistics the successful marriages are only two per cent of brides married a foreigner. Perhaps the thirst for imports has been absorbed with the mother's milk, probably to blame largely the men, but the young Russian girls already have a firm belief that at home they have no prospects, no successful marriage, can not create a strong family. Why?

Hard drinking, inability to provide family with small salary jobs, low culture, push Russian women to find a fantastic Prince from distant countries. Even having a little idea of how dangerous the upcoming adventure with aliens can be, the girls, women, post their profiles of Russian brides on sites, and look forward to their careful, rich and beloved. It is hard to say which category of women exposed to this "disease", but the average age of girls is the age of 19-20. These are the girls with the even unformed thinking, with no education, profession, full of glowing hopes and dreams.

Very often yet the first experience of the personal contact between Russian bride and her future husband is grievous. Such an attentive and charming groom-foreigners over here became the opposite in their homeland. Gifts, flowers, gentle words are replaced in the beatings, threats, and even arrest custodial in a distant country. There is a number of examples of aither good marriages, or just tragedies. Yet not so long ago, a smiling girl from photo,
gets almost as a slave, could not see her children, with no money and documents to return to her homeland.

The most terrible, why the Russian brides want some overseas miracle, in some ways, the Russian men are to blame. Probably, the men made them sort of kind, and now they are looking for happiness in distant lands. It is men's fault. If "theirs" men become closer, more gentle, kinder and smarter, the Russian women will treat them with due respect and love.

By: Julia Pika

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