How The Single Russian Women Can Become Brides.

Sometimes searching for love takes from Russian women much moral energy. Perhaps it is time for them to reconsider their approach to finding real love. Here are five mistakes that make single Russian women in the dates and the initial phases of relationships.

If something sounds familiar it is not bad to try to fix yourself! My Russian girlfriend Irina invites you to examine the five most common mistakes of single Russian women. Irina has experienced all this, so it makes sense to read. For Russian women it is true. Here are Irina's practical conclusions.

I am not deserving of love.
If you believe that you do not deserve of love, then it will be so. Many women after the series of dates and partings feel that they have something fateful, that prevents falls in love with them. They speak phrases like "Who needs me? Clear case, I am doomed to loneliness. I wear Celibacy Crown (evil fate, nothing to do)."

Of course, we all deserve a love! And how do you think? But if you constantly insist on your evil share and a stamp of a loneliness on the forehead, then this attitude is beginning to manifest itself in every word, in every gesture and deed. A doom alternately with timid hope is seen through these women, and a desire to do double more to keep an ordinary fan despite the evil enchantments. A result: we are working onrelations, cling to wagons of the leaving train, for not to remain in solitude.

But what if you start to convince yourself of the opposite - "I am such a beautiful (good, clever, erudite, charming) that I am just doomed to a great love." Maybe there is a sense to try Motivational Autotraining? As a heroine of Irina Muravyova did in movie "The most charming And Attractive"?

To clear away the defeatism thoughts, start with a simple: keep a diary. Be in the track of Bridget Jones, snort at men, spill the evil thoughts on paper and convince yourself that you're irresistible. Day after day, it will be given to you easier. Ask your relatives and friends to compile a lists of your positive qualities and record them on the first page of the diary so that you could see it constantly.

Men are not enemies - female rivals are the enemies.
Try to stop to see the enemy in men. Yes, the harsh truth of life is that good men there arefar fewer than bad, mediocre and so-so. But they still left, and can be found anywhere.

According to a harmful law of nature the women are pulled to those men who are inclined to not to respond to calls and sms, to say idiotic false excuses, to care only about their mental rest, to make a declaration of love and then have a sex with your best girlfriend. A feeling is, that the women falls in love with them from masochism. Sometimes you need to go in childhood to find the reason: perhaps your father was the life and soul of the party, but the harsh and cold at home. You had to fall over backwards to earn his attention. When you're grown up, you metaphorically continue to meet with "dad".

Do believe it - the life with a fully positive man, boring and predictable at first sight, can be denied the extreme ups and downs, but to be calm, full of caring and warmth.

Do not take freedom of man.
Repeat as spell: love - is not a leash. Once 29-years-old Tonya, my friend, received the offer of hand and heart. This was her dream life, she and her groom in her fantasies were inseparable days and nights. But the young man had an other views on family life. For the sake of Tonya he was not ready to renounce the fishing, preference with friends every week, although she believed that they should not spend their free time for other people's lives. Her uncertainty and a thirst for attention literally put her future spouse under the house arrest. Of course, it was the only his desire to escape from it.

As a result, Tonya and groom left each other. Summary: even the happiest couples need of space for growth. The more dynamic life they live - in terms of work, hobbies, friends - so they become more interesting for their second halves.

Do not waste your energy for other men.
Treason - is always a treason, even if it occurred in the imagination. It goes without saying, that your partner is entitled to relevant attitude with respect and kindness. If he is talking about his problems, successes and failures in bed, about joys and frustrations to an attractive blond-colleague at work, then how would you like it?

Probably it sounds somehow madly, but all the same: there is the only person who primarily is entitled to your time and energy, and this man is your friend, husband, groom. And if you spend your mental energy on another person, you are agreeing to take energy from your relations. It is your partner, but not the colleague, has the right to hear first about your flight in a dream, intimate feelings and a good joke, overheard in the subway.

Each has his own truth. Mind to seek the compromises.
If you constantly have to be right, this is wrong. Perhaps you feel that you and friend have a lot of common. You both are economists, you both love to play backgammon, and to dance tango, skiing on mountain. Maybe you know some steps better than your partner, in addition you know how to dance waltz and salsa a little.

That does not mean that it is you also have to better understand the wines, engine oils and modern drama. The habit of the justice is similar to the disease. Once distinguished oneself, a human wants to be right in everything. To stop is difficult, but possible. To sorry - it does not mean to show weakness. What to do, in love it is necessary to concede, and sometimes too much.

By: Julia Pika
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