Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Russian Girls From Back-Country. Don't Be Afraid Them.

Russia is a tremendous country. Climate and nature vary a lot in different regions of its spacious territory, so it happens with the economics and mentality. A Western man who wants to meet a Russian girl should keep in mind that there is a serious difference between residents of St. Petersburg or Moscow and girls from small industrial cities or some back-country areas. I do not mean that back-country girls somehow give the pas to big-city ones by saying this. However, we could not traverse the fact that provincials have different background motivations for meeting a foreigner.

First of all we should accept that average income in Russian countryside is several times less than one of Moscow or St. Petersburg, while the prices for basic goods and foodstuffs are the same. However, despite the popular Western opinion, in Russia you can watch TV, read newspapers and use the Internet nearly in any region. Thus, the girls who grew up in the country or in small industrial cities have quite a clear idea of global culture values, main fashion trends and life in a big city or abroad. They may learn how to use a computer and study foreign languages. And all the more so they are not so happy with the idea of spending their whole life working in the plant or in the farm for a penny salary. That is the main reason for their desire to leave their home-places by all means. Some of them take a risk moving to big cities. However, they face there a lot of serious competitors in the name of the girls who were born in town and have well-to-do parents, place where to live and some useful connections. Having unequal background only a few of country girls manage to achieve anything. Some of them have to work hard to get the room in the hostel, others, being more decisive and attractive, find a kind of "sponsor". By the way, nowadays this word in Russian has a slightly different meaning than it has in the West. According to it sponsorship can be defined as prostitution by subscription rather than commercial partnership for advertising purposes. For a country girl marrying a foreigner is one the few ways to gain the life she considers worthy. Some of the metropolitan girls can afford to be extremely particular and capricious and regard men who traveled thousand miles to meet them as funny experience. Meanwhile, provincials take seriously any chance they get.

The main problem that Russian country girl has is that she is afraid to present a foreigner to her family. She is afraid that something can go wrong and nothing will happen from their relationship and she will be laughed at at her native city. Everybody knows everybody there, and after that she can have no chance to build a family there. So if she presents you to her family, it is a big step from her side, it shows that she is really serious and hopes that everything will be all right between you. In this case, it is good if you have at least a small present for all members of her family, especially her mother and father. Be attentive to them, and you will have always good support from them. If your Russian bride is reluctant to make you know her relative, make her trust you and she will do it. Of course, there can also be some troubles with country girls. Countryside is the place where the majority of scammers come from. Some of them managed to rise to eminence in their criminal profession and it is rather hard to figure them out. However, following some simple recommendations, which have been numerously published on our site, will help you to avoid their heartbreaking tricks and to find the girl who will be honest in her gratitude to you.

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